my step daughters visited us again this sunday for several hours. on friday, saturday and sunday we shopped for winter clothes for her and our son. on sunday when my husband drops her off to her mother she tells him that the child needs dress shoes. i was furious because not only do we pay child support but we just bought her 2 pair of sneakers about a month and a half ago, and all the winter clothes. my husband feels guilty because he say the mother does everything he doesn't, meaning as far as caring for the child. i told him that she was suppose to, because the child lives with her and when she is with us we will do the same things she has to do. she pisses me off because i feel like she is trying to use us. she has 4 kids and can not take care of all of them so now she thinks that we should do it all. i reminded my husband that we are not rich and that he is only half responsible for his daughter. we have paid her support on time every 2 weeks and we have provided clothes for this child for every season. we also bought her whole christmas last year. am i wrong for saying no to the dress shoes? i think we do our part and she looks for every opportunity to use us because she knows my husband feels guilty.
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