My boyfriend and I recently had to get CAS invovled with the kids natural mother who to this point has had regular custody of the two kids, a 10yr old girl and 4 yr old boy. There is no actual custody order in place and my boyfriend had visitation that completely depended on the natural mother's irractic moods. The end result has been the children being placed with us and the mother having to begin supervised visits this week. Unfortunately there are mutual friends involved and the natural mother is claiming she has no idea why the kids have been taken from her and this is all mine and my boyfriend's fault. I cannot stand the opion of a certain mutal friend who says what do my boyfriend and I know wabout being parents... blah, blah blah. The custody situation is a direct result of the natural mother's refusal to co-operate with CAS, she created the situation herself, and my boyfriend and I are being demonized for it. I guess that's what you get for wanting to protect your children and stepchildren. If anyone has stories of similar situations and how they coped that would be a great comfort. I have already decided not to have any contact with this person because I cannot handle the stress of listening to her opinions which are based on the lies of the natural mother. I am also 19 weeks pregnant, the stress is not good for me or the baby. Any comments/stories would be appreciated.
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