I just got married on Jan.19,2007 and I have 2 step children a boy 15 and a boy 12...they are very,very spoiled.we took them on vaction with us,and it was a vacation from hell..and I mean Hell. all they did was fight...in the car,at the hotel,at the pool at the cafe.in church..no matter how meny time we ask them to behave ..they would go right back to fighting...I have 3 children...2 girls.23 and 20 and 1 boy 17..I have been devorced for 14 years..and raised my kids by myself..My older girl is out on her own,but my other kids are still with me...My first husband left me after 10 years for a man....my children at that time were 8,6,3.we have had some hard times..my children were always happy with what they had...I work for a school as a Food Service MGR,and I only get paid once amonth(which is not much)I always took care of us...My husband now is disabled...and his check is not much.Iam finding myself struggling more now with the bills more then ever...I feel like Iam leaving my children out,because we never have the money to do anything....My husbands kids had 2 vacations this year one with us and one with there mother...My kids had none...I don't know why I feel like this,but ever since that vacation from Hell.I can't stand them..I get sick to my stomach when I know they are comming over for the weekend..and My kids can't stand them either...they always stay in there rooms...Should I have waited longer before getting married?we only waited 7 months...and the kids didn't get along then, well I shouldn't say get along ,my kids just avoid them..and I do too.I always go into the bedroom and keep to myself..because I can't stand to be around them...Ive talked to my husband about this(I havent told him I can't stand them)I keep hopeing things will change...please dear friends help me out..give me some advice on what I should do....
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