My husband did cheat on me 3 weeks ago (we were separated for a month) with his BM. Now BM doesn't want their son around me. She has become bitter because he came back to me. Now all of a sudden she doesn't trust me. I have heard my husband tell her I'm not mad at her and he has expressed to her that I do a lot for their son. She knows that he has spent a lot of time with me alone and I plan all the activities but why should I be punished for something they did? I'm trying not to hate her for keeping him away but its hard that she won't grow up. She said that he has said that I am mean. Which to him as a 3 yr old mean is me setting rules and standards because his mom gives him no rules or standards to follow at home. She has never before expressed this to us until my husband came back home. My question is what do I do now? I'm extremely hurt because I dearly love my step-son and treat as if he were my own. When we were going to get a divorce I even asked him if I could still see him just because I have an attachment to him. Now when we do get to see each other eventually, we have to start our relationship over again. And I'm scared he may view me as the bad one.
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