Almost 3 years ago I made my husband choose between me and his daughter. He chose his daughter and I moved out. 32 days later he threw her out and I moved back about 2 months later. After she was thrown out she filed sexual abuse charges against my husband which came back un-founded. My husband has recently been talking with her. She is currently living in England and is truly homesick. She doesn't talk to her mother and I told my husband that her mother and grandmother made her file the charges against him. She was 3 months from being 18. I think she is using him to bring her back here. He says he'll never choose again - especially now that we have the baby that we always dreamed of having. I try and get reassurance from my husband but he doesn't understand. He says if she asks to come he'll tell her I don't want her here. I don't want to be the one to get all the blame either. I'm trying to just "go with the flow" but its hard.
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