He is mentally mean to me and I've put up with it for 12 years. I'm almost at my breaking point and I have somewhat told my husband this. I have recently almost felt like leaving, but I don't want to because I love my husband and we have a six year old together. My stepson takes his anger out on me, I think, because his dad and him don't talk openly or realistically about what's right in front of them. My stepson lived on the streets for 8 years, drunk and doing hard drugs. He scared me so much a couple times, I had to lock myself in the bedroom. He's tried to kill himself by stabbing himself in the neck. That one was really hard. I do love him, but I can't take it anymore. Now he's with a 19 very immature girl, who he plans on marrying and she has major issues as well. My husband and I do not care for her because of her behavior she has demonstrated in front of us. They drank all our hard alcohol last time they were here without us knowing. He was here the weekend before drinkig, (because they got in a fight) and then he didn't want us to mention it in front of her. It's just ridiculous. He also has a five year old, yes I'm a step grandma and my six year old is an uncle. They are very close and I hate to bring this adult stuff between them. The first time he brought that 19 year old here they had very loud intercourse, (well she was loud) which I thought was disrespectful..........I just had a bad feeling about her when I first met her. She's pretty, when her mouth is closed. I like everyone and get along with pretty much everyone, but she brings out the worst in me and I don't like that. I am stressing about the next time they come over because he wrote me a letter on myspace and accused me of being passive aggressive and mocking his girlfriend. Ugh!! I have been sarcastic a couple times, but its nothing compared what he has put his dad and me through. He says I cause arguments between them. I wonder if he has ever thought about how his actions have affected his dad's and I's relationship. He's a hypocrite. Any advice?
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