This first of th emonth we had to laid to rest my grandfarther. Well, my my sister told our dad, who puts his step-kids adn grand kids before us and think so highly of them. Anyhow he showed up and he was not close to Papa nor was papa fond of him. To make matters worst he brought his wife, whom I refuse to call our step-mom. She in the beginning puts us down by writing us and telling us we were going to hell since we did not believe in what she did. Now she has my dad beliving what she does and he belives we are going to hell also. He is an ass. Pastor now of their church. He even went down to the grave site. When it was over he and she comes up to me and shows me picture of his billy goats! He loves his chickens and billy goats. Which I don't understand why he has animals when he was told due to his liver transplant not t be around animals. What the kicker is his beleif system, believes the departed is a sleep until the rapture, meaning Jesus is also in hyber sleep? I have since trying to figure out why he came. Should I email him and thanks im for coming, even tho his wife prob deletes what I send him? I am not close to him. According to his wife I am a slacker since I still live with my mom. Yep, theres a kicker to this. When dad moved in with her the youngest was still living at home and she had to move with her disabled dad. Then a year ago I found out that her daughter the sam e age me moved in with her baby! Sorry, enough rambling.
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