I have been in a relationship for 12 years, not married, but my as well be....After being caught for the 5th or 6th time ( i lost track) he finally admitted he had a problem and went into detail of the things he was doing (wish that didnt happen)...We found him an SA class and he started going. I felt this was the beginning of a change, but even after changing the password on the laptop he still found a way to get the other computer in the house (the one that is so old it needs to trashed) to work. He got caught using it, becuase I set him up, because I had a "feeling" he was acessing it. I was right. We even when to talk to a pastor at a local church where he lied about getting on line, lying to God of all things. I told him to leave, I am done with all the worring and I feel like I am a private investigator...I am unhappy but love him so much. I'm not even sure anymore if its the addiction or the lying that is the problem anymore..When is enough enough?? Please help...I feel so alone!
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