Sucky sex. I'm sick of his sucky sex. I want intimacy and enthusiasm. I'm so sad :(
Everyone tells me not to play the victim. But what I'd like to know is how I'm supposed to act, then? I'm sorry, but volunteering isn't an adequate substitute for sex - IMHO. I've waited patiently for over 20 years for him to get his penis working correctly. I just don't see it happening - he's been in recovery for 5 months and sex just keeps getting worse. I'm to the point of wanting to take a lover, and that scares the hell out of me.