hello everyone, I never thought I'd join something like this but here I am. My boyfriend of over two years got arrested two days ago for violating his probation. He is now in jail and will be until he sees a judge in about two weeks where they will decide his fate. He's already served seven years in prison and 5 years on parole and probation for a mistake he made 12 years ago. He already got off parole and was one of two people who managed to do so while serving a 5-20 year parole sentence. He just had a few months left on probation but he made a mistake and violated the terms to his contract. Now he's in jail and I'm a huge mess. He is my best friend, my rock, my everything. My life has been turned upside down because I am not used to being away from him and because I don't know what will happen to him. He may have to go back to prison and I'm terrified. I already feel like I'm not strong enough to endure these next two weeks and the thought of not having him around for possibly a couple of years is killing me. I don't know how to hold myself together, I'm staying as strong as I can when I talk to him so he doesn't feel worse and I'm trying to keep my routine going, but it's just so hard. All I want is for him to be back so he could hold me. Missing him so much and the uncertainty of it all is killing me.
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My son is still in prison, but does want to return to Virginia. I am researching and researching other states that we could move to before he is released to make his life easier. Virginia has a life "sentence" on the registry as do many states and I understand he can petition to be removed after 15 years. But I am at my wits' end to try to find some place suitable. And the laws are...