hello my sistas! i hope this new year is a blessed one for all of you. you guys know that eventhough none of us have ever laid eyes on each other-we have a special bond, for life! anyway i started this thread because i wanted to remind everyone here that the reason i started this group was so that we could say "EXACTLY" how we feel without being judged. everyone is entitled to their opinion but i want us all to be able to say whatever we feel. i know what it feels like to be judged for my feelings about my husbands affair but most importantly his child. i purposely started this group so that you can feel free to say "i wish this child were never born, or i don't ever want to see this child, and if he sees the child then.......!" okay i know that to some people those things sound mean and wrong but to the majority of us that is exactly how we feel, and those feelings are REAL and should be validated. as we all know that next to death this has to be the toughest situation to be in (at least it feels that way). i just wanted to make it clear to everyone here that i myself will never judge you for your real feelings, i am just here to love you thru the pain and support you with love. take care of yourselves and know that i have your back and that i am here for you.
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