I'm not sure really how to start this post, I was wondering if any of you could give me some advice on what you have done to get you through it. I was pretty much over the affair until I found out about the child, then it made everything fresh in my memory again. I have a very hard time when it comes to sex with my husband. I guess you could say that I let him have it so he doesn't go somewhere else for it. During sex all I can think about is, did he touch her like that, did he do that with her..and so on. He knows that something isn't right and when I try to talk to him about it,he says that the only person that he is thinking of is me, not what he did with the other woman, so I shouldn't think about it either. Easier said than done!! Has anyone else been through this and what have you done to get through it if you have?? Thank you in advance.
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