my husband told me about his affair not long after it happened and we got past it. now 17 years later the woman sends him 4 pictures of his daughter that we knew nothing about. I am angry at her for denying him and the child a chance to know each other, she is almost 17 and has friends,a boyfriend and doesn't have much time for us. angry at him for giving her want I wanted but he didn't, and angry at him because he seems to be shutting me out of that part of his life. I am expected to have a relationship with his child, while he doesn't tell me anything thats going on and if I ask its like pulling his teethh to get answers. i know that the child is not to blame for any of this but seeing her just brings it all back. the crazy part is we have only known for a month and he refuses to take a paternity test. he says she look enough like him and she needs him and us. we have 2 sons 18 and 20 who are dealing well with it, I am so confused,angry and seriously stressed, I work 40 hours a week, go to school 25 hours a week, plus homework, have a 2 hour round trip drive every day 2 kids of my own, trying to save my marriage. I am lost and in need of something
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