ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost six years. Together we have 7 children (only the youngest is ours together) had 2 from before we were togther and had 1from hs first ex and 3 fom his second. Well a few years ago or so he told me he cheated....with i might add she ow who destroyed his and his ex's life....so to say......anyhow he ws honest and bcause i truely love him i decided to stay. well a few months later we found out she was prego....bf decided to just see what happens. so now the oc is 1 and a half an he goes to court next wed to request dna. I just dont no what to do. at fist i old him if it is his then he'll hae to pay and w'llget the oc. but now that the time to find out is getting closer i just dont no if i can help raise it. We have been threw so much together (death of a child-my son) my mothers death, his 2 bad accidents (being shot and falling off bridge) I dont want us o be over but i dont no if i can deal with the oc. how do you explain that to other people our daughter is 5.evryone knows i had my tubes tied. there would be ?'s and i dont feel that i should have to explain my self to people who will never unerstand why m even still with him. It is really stressin me out. I no its not the oc's fault but its not my fault eiter. im just so confused
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