my mom and i have had a very close relationship since my son was born 4 years ago, and so what happened last night is really getting to me. okay so i have had one hell of weekend with my husband. we fought all weekend and even while he had his daughter here at OUR home he still had the nerve to be an ass towards me. okay so yesterday i took my son to a birthday party and afterwards we stopped by my aunts house for dinner(husband stayed home) so while i was at my aunts my mother called and she assumed that my husbands OC had spent the night and i had taken her to the party with me, i told her no and that the child had gone home the same day she came over, my mother wanted to know why. so i told her that the child no longer spends the night at our house and that she only comes over for the day now. well MY mother begans to tell me how wrong i am and that this is not fair to the child and think about how the child must feel blah!blah!blah! i was like damn what about me what about all i have sacrificed so that he can be a part of his childs life. it amazes me that no one acknowledges that i even alllow him to bring his kid to our home, or that i am still with his lying cheating ass, or all the things i have done for this man and his OC. i just could not believe how she was telling me how wrong i am. this is not a child that he had before i came along and i had to accept in order to be with him, he had this child as a result of him running around behind my back. it just pisses me off that people who are on the outside looking in have such an opinion about something they know nothing about. i have decided that i will not talk to anyone about this situation but you guys. it just hurts that everyone wants me to put my own needs and the needs of my child aside to do what is right for a kid that i did not even ask to be here,a child whos being i had no say so in. it amazes me how everyone almost acts as if this is normal. to people like my mother and my best friend who is on my moms bandwagon i say "when your husband cheats on you and gets the other woman pregnant-let me know how easy it is.?
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