my husband had been hiding his secret from 2 very new friends of ours and we recently decided that we needed to tell them because every time they wanted to hang out with us and the child was here, he would find a way to avoid them, or she would call me after i had spent hours crying-i would lie and say i had a headache. well anyway he came home last week and told me that he finally told the guy(they work together) and we knew that once he did tell the guy, he would then tell his wife. well i never would have imagined that they had been thru the same thing. 13 years ago she found out that he had a baby while they were together and she only learned of the child after the fact. she has had a lot of time to deal with this and so while she has been where i am, she knows what i am going thru but we think a little differently, i do appreciate having someone that close to me that can relate and i can talk to because of everyone who knows about this no one has experienced it firsthand like she and i have. i respect her insight and i listen to her because i know what she says is right, i just don't see the light at the end of the tunnel like she has. it is good to know that there is someone out there who made it thru this, she and her husband are like the most together person. they love each other and their daughter so much and they really seem to have it together and i believe that they would never hurt each other. i know that all that glitters is not gold but if my husband and i can get to where they are, then i can say-we made it thru this storm and that the next storm should be easy as PIE! i love you ladies, i am sorry for those who's relationships have ended but for those who need some hope-here it is? someone made it thru, even if they are the only ones:)
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