I was just wondering how everyone is dealing with their situations... It's been a couple months and things are a little better I think, then I have a down fall and don't know how to deal and get over the situation. It's bad enough about the affair and I think if it was that alone, we would be able to move on no problem and possibly forgive. It forced us to look at our relationship and he is truely sorry and is willing to do anything to make it work. He said he also learned his lesson and will never do it again, I know that part is true I think because he never thought it would result in a child. However I still am nervous that he might cheat again just I think knowing that they did it once that there is the possiblity. I know he won't do it know, but who knows when times get tough. However the biggest thing is how to deal with knowing it resulted in a baby so it's a slap in the face all the time, that part can never go away. It's just so hard know that some othe women has my husband's child... It's like a lifetime movie, I remember watching years ago and said oh my I could never stay and deal with that, well here I am staying and dealing. I guess I'm just wondering how everyone else deals with the fact that your spouse's affair resulted in a child that is a constant reminder of the situation...To date no one knows about this this affair never mind that there is a child. WE are trying to move forward but many times I CAN'T help but bring up some comment about his mistake and how much it is costing us..
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