It is driving me crazy that the other childs mom will not speak one word or communicate at all. I have written her letters, emails, FB, Twitter. I have done everything except show up on her door step. She will not respond at all. Social Svcs told my H she wants nothing to do with us except $$support. I made my H email her and she didl not respond. She even told Social Services that if he wants to see the child or speak to her about anything he has to do it in court via court order. My H says its all for the best, but I just want some terms finalized by her. What is she going to do when the OC starts asking for daddy and start looking for him? How is she going to handle it if he wants to see his dad or now brother? I want some ground rules laid or future plans. I want to know her plans. My H says I have to let it go. Does she really think her son is not going to start asking questions someday? It’s just all too weird and absolutely crazy...I just feel like I will feel so much better if she would speak to us, but maybe not?