My heart goes out to everyone here. I am online tonight searching to find how to deal with the birth of my H's baby with the OW. My biggest question is how is it to look at the H's child for the first time? How do our children cope with it? I've insisted on not telling them until they are adults (3 and 10 now). I've told H his visitation with both sets of children (mine and hers) need to be kept seperate. My H works out of state for work temporarily and we are exploring divorce options. He visits home once a month. Not sure when he'll add the baby into that whom lives fairly close. Hearing about the pregnancy and now the birth itself has completely thrown me back to day one. I am incredibly mad and devestated at the same time. HUGS
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