I have been here before. but i haven't in a while. i have been waiting for it all to hit the fan. well it did and now i need help getting over it. the good news is that we did get married. the best day of our lives and the most fun we have had in forever. the bad news is that we just were able to finalize the details on the support he will have to provide to her. now i am happy it is finalized but i am not happy that i feel like no matter what, she is still getting something and that is more than i would allow. i think i have an issue with any dollar amount that she is getting, but am glad on the fact that it is and will always be only a financial transaction. How do i get over it? how can i live every day knowing this will be there and just be happy? I know we are at different points in these battles, but anyone out there that can tell me how to be happy again?
Posts You May Be Interested In