I am 23 weeks pregnant and my husband and I were just told our unborn son has Spina bifida. We have 9 year old twins now and it is all so hard on all of us. We don't know what to do. We were told he will not be able to walk or have any function below the waist. I am now faced with what to do. Do we continue with this pregnancy or do we decide to abort? This is the toughest thing I have ever had to do in my life.. I love my baby but I want to make sure he has a good life and isn't in any pain. I just want people to talk to what know what I am going trew.
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