hi every one,2yrs back my sister was diagnosed with thyroid cancer, she had 2 opperations to remove it, durin this time our mum who had been ill 4 a while was diagnosed with gullet cancer havin spread to her stomache liver lungs and kidneys. sadly we lost our lovely mum a matter of weeks later.6 wks later i was diagnosed with a deep stage 2 malignant melanoma!i was crushed, i was grievin 4 mum and worried 4 sister , this couldnt be happening!i had 2 opperations on my thigh to remove the cancer then 4 days after i recieved a beatin from my husband. i got the kids and left, id no where to go and ended up in temp housin.ive now got a new home but i had nothing. we had to start from scratch and its been hard.i also have stage 3 chronic renal disease, so i feel quite poorly at times and in and out hospital.im very freckly and hundreds of moles and there are a few more that the cancer unit worried about.. they think i would benefit from counselin, they say they dont think i fully understand!i do i just try not to think about it.does counselin really help, xx
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