Is it possible for me to have kidney infections caused by bacteria in the bloodstream?..I gave up sex and I am leaving my partner of 8 years because he doesnt understand how terrified I am of getting a kidney infection. I used to get uti after sex(everytime) and the infecton would go directly to my kidney. I gave up sex weeks ago and my partner is so cranky. Is it possible to get uti and kidney infection with high fever from the bloodstream....If not....Can sex cause kidney infections. My man wants sex 5-6-7 times a week and he is rough at times....I am leaving him today and he doesn't know....I am moving in with my daughter so I dont have to put up with the stress anymore. I dont know how I am going to tell im this but I made up my mind...He makes me feel guilty if we dont go to bed together every night so he can have an orgasm:-(..He says he will wait until I am ready but we are together 24-7..I cant breathe anymore....He asks me 100 questions when someone calls or I go somewhere..He is controlling in a very sneaky way..Also he says.."I have done so much for you"...meaning feed me..I dont buy clothes anymore or go shopping for 8 years since I met him...I dont want anything from him because he throws it back in my face. I think he is obsessed with me..I dont think he loves me because he would let me have some space....we are together 24-7 for 8 years now....He owns a business and I do my share when I can for no pay..I get food and liquids and the occasional $5...Losing my independence is the worse for me....If Im gonna be poor i will be poor alone beause he always has a wad of money in his pocket
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