Ok, my ex and I have been seperated for about 11 months. Not divorced yet, but the paperwork is filed. Long story short, he's in Iraq, and verbally abusive every chance he gets. I've tried A LOT to just not talk to him, but he always gets to me. Tonight he called me a lazy piece of shit, and told me he plans on hating me for the rest of his life. I understand that that's his deal. What I hate is that we have three children together. How do we parent when we can't even talk to eachother. I have tried numerous times to deal with him, but he just can't get over his anger. Has anyone has a situation where they just no longer deal with the ex when there's kids involved. I already know that there's going to have to be a seperate person who will pick them up, and drop them off. He told me today that he didn't come home on r&r cause he knew he would get arrested for domestic violence. He's the one who left, for another woman, what does he have to be mad about?? Anyway, I just don't know what to do anymore. Is it really possible to just not deal with him?
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