Ok, so it's my nightmare coming true.... My children went to their dads for a week for Xmas. My son has told me tonight that he wants to go possibly live with his dad. This hurts, this hurts ALOT. I know he's a boy who just wants to be with his dad, but his dad really doesn't give a doody. We lived in Reno for eight yrs. In the eight years we lived there the man didn't even call them once a month. They'd see him in the summers and every other Xmas. Yes I realize this is more than some kids. We moved back to the state where their dad lives and we are 5 hrs apart. Kids got home from their summer on August 15th and did not hear from their dad at all. They called him on his birthday November 4. They then have continued to keep in contact with him. He has made no attempt to contact them. When they are at their dad's house they come home and complain that he spends no time with them and they don't want to go. It is my nightmare coming true. I don't know how to handle this one.
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