Hi everyone! I'm 21 and I have 2 kids (ages 5 and 1. My daughter(5) is from a previous relationship and my son (1) is with my soon to be ex husband. I work and go to college fulltime and have my daughter all the time since her dad has never been there, I also am bipolar and have a lot of stress dealing with that. My ex husband has had my son living with him for about 8 months now, and 6 months ago we got into this huge fight and since then everytime I call we get into a fight, I am just so tired of all the fighting and threats and namecalling. I either work or go to school everyday, I'm struggling to spend time with my daughter and my ex refuses to be cooperative when I do have time to take my son, he was refusing to put him in daycare so I couldn't have him if I had work or school. I want to see him but I can't deal with my ex constantly telling me what a horrible mother I am, how I need to help them out financially, and how he's gonna take me to court over this or that. He moved almost an hour away from me to his moms and doesn't pay any bills but the cable bill and makes more money than me yet I live on my own and have to worry about my daughter and he expects money...I keep telling him I have nothing left to give he just doesn't get it! I keep trying but he only drops him off when it is convenient for him or his mom, basically if they have something else to do I can see him when they need him to be watched but other than that they won't let me see him. Sorry this is so long but I just needed to get this out I am beyond frustrated with the whole situation.
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