My 4 year old told me last night right before bed time that he wants to go live with his Dad forever. He told me didn't love me or his sister and wants to live with his Dad. His Dad is not very active in his life. He sees our son about 4 times a year and usually because his mother comes and picks up our son. It broke my heart that he told me these things. I actually went to bed and cried about it. This morning when he got up he said that I needed to call his Dad so he can go live with him. I am at a loss right now. Living with his father is not an option right now. I am no longer with his father because of his drug addiction. I want to think he is acting this way because he misses his Dad. It kills me because we try to call him and he never answers the phone. My son gets angry with me about it. I do understand what my son is going through because I am a child of divorced parents and remember the broken promises of my father. But it just hurts me to know that my son wants to leave me. I have no idea what to say to my son when I get home from work today. I know that he is going to want to call his Dad to come and get him. Please forgive my rambling......I just needed to get this off my chest.
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