this is the first time anyone other then me or my mom has watched my son in the last 17 months. me and my husband split up over a month ago and i still cant come to terms with it. i miss him i want him back i love him but hes moved on. we were together 3 years had a baby got married and sadly hes moved on to a new girl. Hes never really been there for my son so he doesnt know how to take care of him. My issue is i dont want his girlfriends around my son. im very weird about that. i cry at the thought of his girl around my son. ( i cry when i think of my husband with her to) but thats my son i carried him for 9 months ive taking care of him for the last 17 months im the one who gave up everything for him and i dont want other girls around him. and the fact that i know that my son is seeing him dad loving on another girl makes me feel replaced. i know my sons only 17 months and doesnt understand whats going on by in my eyes in the only girl he should see his daddy with and his daddy is the only boy he should see me with. idk what to do for the next 4 hrs my sons care is in someone elses hand and there is nothing i can do about it...im trying at all cost to avoid the court thing but his daddy is so immature he hasnt called to ask about his son in a week because he wont get away from this girl....mind u me and him have only been apart a month and hes already got a new girlfriend and is living with her heard rumors that they are engaged and he wont grow up enough to be a daddy...im not keeping him away from my son im trying to keep her away, i dont want people walking in and out of my sons life thats not right in my eyes. he should respect his son enough to keep her away for now and if she dont understand that then she shouldnt be with her. (he shouldnt be anyways he should be with me) idk what to do he wont call to talk to me he wont give me the time of day because of this girl. i dont think hes in love with her i think its just a fling thats why i dont want my son involved with her. idk maybe in just weird but i dont want any other girls around my son!! im his mom not them but i really need some adivce on what to do. am i being impossible? am i asking to much by keeping her away? in my eyes if he loved his son he would do what ever it took to have some time with him or call him every once in a while. he would put his son first and her second (or dump her that would work to) plz any advice?
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