Hi all...I'm new here...I'm 31 and I have a 7 year old daughter named Alyssa. Recently, my boyfriend broke up with me and then quickly changed his mind and said he wanted to work things out. I think this really confused my daughter...she cried when he left and then kinda looked at me like what the hell is going on when he took us out to eat like 2 days after "the break up". I have decided to give this relationship a month longer (we have been together for over 5 years and I feel that this has been coming for a long time...if it's going to work, it better start working soon) and if it doesn't work by then, I think we should go our separate ways. Getting back to Alyssa...Alyssa loves John (my bf) and I think she is freaking out inside because she seems worried that we won't make it without him. She cried to my mother...asking her what we are going to do now that John is out of the picture. I want her to be confident that we will be ok without him...how do I make this happen? What do you guys think about the situation in general? Do you think I should be giving the relationship a second chance? Or should I end it now? Any feedback you have would be appreciated...thanks!
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