I can't believe he might take the kids from christmas and new years. Any other time it would be great. go spend some time with daddy...but the holiday. We aren't divorced yet, not even legally seperated, guess we are both too scared to take that step. As long as work keeps him states and sometimes countries apart, we can maintain. I'm afraid of that change, but yet, I'm the one unhappy, I'm the one who feels his actions are abusive. Of course to him, he does no wronng. Without my kids at the holidays, what will I do. I'd love to go see a friend, but then he really would call it over, cause he doesn't believe guys can't be friends with girls without desire to have sex. I feel like my shell is cracking and my insides will soon fall out. He is security and yet dangerous (emotionally). I don't know what to do.
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