My husband left me and my daughter almost a month ago...I am 7 months pregnant with baby number two....I am torn between whether or not to even try and let him have a realtionship with his daughters or not...he is with another the woman, the reason he left, and she is a very unstable person that I DO NOT want my kids around....he doesn't come and see my little one when he says he will, he never calls, and he doesn't support them financially because he quit his job to move closer to his new girl....I just dont want them to have to deal with rejection after rejection from him and have problems with realtionships later because of his unstability...i DO NOT want them to think that the way he treated me is the way that a man should treat them....I just dont know what to do.....Maybe they would be better off without him in there life....what if one day, when I am good and ready, I find a wonderful man that I deserve and he wants to be the father to them that my stbx never will be??? I just want to do whats best for them...i need advice......
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