
Single Dads Support Group
This community is dedicated to fathers who are going through the parenting process alone or without the support of a spouse. Single parenthood is often opted for by the parent (as in divorce, adoption, artificial insemination, surrogate motherhood, or extramarital pregnancy), or an unforeseeable occurrence (as in the death of one parent or abandonment by one parent).

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i am dealing with the intense jealousy of my wife moving on. it appears she found someone who she is in love with. what is troubling me right now is that we have only been seperated for six weeks and she has spent only one date with him.
besides my irrational feelings what is concerning me right now are my girls ages six and nine. i know that my ex is planning to see her bf again and spend the night with him, and leave the kids with a sitter overnight. all of this seems to much too fast and i am worried about my kids.
thanks for letting me vent, i'm looking forward to everyone's comments.
besides my irrational feelings what is concerning me right now are my girls ages six and nine. i know that my ex is planning to see her bf again and spend the night with him, and leave the kids with a sitter overnight. all of this seems to much too fast and i am worried about my kids.
thanks for letting me vent, i'm looking forward to everyone's comments.
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Ask to take the kids insteas of having a sitter!
If she really falls for a guy that quick, it's clearly a rebound. The last laugh will be yours because it isn't going to last.
I know you are frustrated but you are bigger than the situation. start thinking with your head not with your heart. Right now in my case emotions are on a swing my mind wins most times.
I agree that you should ask if the girls can stay with you. She shouldn't have a problem with that if she does she's at it.
If she can move on that fast your better off without her.
Love Gillianne xxx
As for the kids, i agree, if possible you should have the kids. Also you should talk to them about their mothers new bf & see how thay feel, try to be careful how you put this though-some younger kids could be more worried that the situation upsets their daddy, which in turn upsets them.
When I split up with my sons dad, I wouldnt,t introduce any new boyfriend until I knew it was going to be serious. I personally think 6 weeks is too soon to be introducing a new relationship, everyone needs time to adjust. x