couldn't the kids stay with you instead of a sitter? Is there a distance between you?

Diito,

Ask to take the kids insteas of having a sitter!

I agree on having the kids spend time with you. Every time she goes on a date, you have a rockin time with the kids that she misses out on.

If she really falls for a guy that quick, it's clearly a rebound. The last laugh will be yours because it isn't going to last.

My ex walked out on us for another man. Then she left him for the guy she's with now. She constantly lies about having to work so she can't keep the boys so she can live with him. The boys know this and resent her for it. And they stay with me. I used to be jealous but what's the point? She doesn't care and wants nothing to do with you. I cut off all communication with my ex. It helped.

My Ex found someone 6 days after announcing that it was over(he is also 19 and half my age!!.....we also have 3 kids 4, 2 and 1); make it worse we're under the same roof for the time being...and she has been on a couple of dates already and has slept over.

I know you are frustrated but you are bigger than the situation. start thinking with your head not with your heart. Right now in my case emotions are on a swing my mind wins most times.

Firstly and I hate to say this to you but I very much doubt that she has only seen this guy once. It is extremely possible that she was seeing him before you split up.

I agree that you should ask if the girls can stay with you. She shouldn't have a problem with that if she does she's at it.

If she can move on that fast your better off without her.

Love Gillianne xxx

Don't feel bad my ex married her uncle by adoption 2 days after we divorced!!!!!! and she does nothing for my son I do everything. Forget her worry bout your kids, she's taking care of herself, acting like that, you be the better person take care of your kids....

That is a rebound for sure! Like the other gents said, you should spend that time with them.

Your feelings of jealousy are completeley normal & although you may not believe it now, they will fade in time, especially if you yourself meet someone else. it is incredibly hurtful how some people move on quicker than others-I suppose it could mean that she is a shallow person & you are much deeper than her.
As for the kids, i agree, if possible you should have the kids. Also you should talk to them about their mothers new bf & see how thay feel, try to be careful how you put this though-some younger kids could be more worried that the situation upsets their daddy, which in turn upsets them.
When I split up with my sons dad, I wouldnt,t introduce any new boyfriend until I knew it was going to be serious. I personally think 6 weeks is too soon to be introducing a new relationship, everyone needs time to adjust. x

She's a whore ,take care and I mean good care of yourself because those kids are going to need you to pick up the peices of their lives after the whore puts them through the ringer. Good luck I know what you are going through.