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Why Are Girls So Cruel?

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Okay, if I weren't such a nice person I would've killed myself a month ago. What happened? I told a girl I love her and all she didn't say anything to me since! What happened now? I ask people for advise if I should ask out this girl and they all say yeah go for it. So I do and she doesn't say anything. Why is that? They can at least have the ability to say something back. I had to gain so so much courage to do this after having my heart completely broken only to have it broken again. This just isn't fair.
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Hi jthayer,

Tell her exactly what you told us. If she hasn't the courage to say anything then she's likely not at the maturity level you think she is. Know that we are not the only imperfect ones out there. Keep your chin up, you have an incredible amount of manliness, something that is severely lacking in the world today and I salute you for it!
Caeli
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i was really hoping she would say yes but don't worry there will be other girls and if this girl doesn't like you it's not the end. she never deserved you in the first place so don't stress over her. there will be a girl who will say yes. i'm glad you told her how you felt about her.
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I feel for you, jthayer. Just yesterday I asked out this guy I really like (we've already gone out once, to my cousin's wedding). I asked, and he said he doesn't want to "Lead me on", whatever that means. As far as I'm concerned, it's his loss. And my advice to you is the same: it's her loss. If she can't see what a wonderful person you are, she's not worth it.
Loved1
Loved1
I agree her maturity is not present, and you are not to blame! I don't think it's fair to judge all woman based on a few of us. We are all unique individuals, and sometimes we have to learn to really pay attention to the person and see if they are safe and at what levels. I'm sorry you are going through any torment. I admire you going with your feelings, and if she wwasn't in a position to care about your feelings, it is no reflection on you.
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stop beating yourself down, it took a lot of courage to do what you did. The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Things are always awkward the first time you take a courageous step. Trust me you will look back one day and have a good laugh. Next time don't tell a girl you love her the first time you talk to her.
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so you asked a girl out and she didn't respond to it. how well did you know her? and how can you be heartbroken over that? don't get so wrapped up in a girl unless you know she's going to reciprocate your feelings. for someone who's had their heart broke, you'd think you'd be a little more cautious, no offense. just don't get so wrapped up in someone. i used to do that, too, but it comes off as desperate and anxious and those are two things that will make a girl run for the hills. be strong.
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Talk to her!:D
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By coming right up and professing your love right off, that may have scared her. Maybe you should try to talk to her again... but this time instead of telling her you love her, rephrase it to you liking her, and would like to date her and see where it leads?? And if she says no, then ask her if you two can still remain friends.
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