Ive always been shy, and Ive gotten better, but I still have my moments where I dont really talk to people. People always tell me that I'm too nice and too polite and stuff and I don't try to be, its just the way I am. I play lacrosse though, and being nice isnt quite working for me in this setting. It's hard for me to make friends on the team, feel confident in myself on the field, and perform well. So today my coach, in front of everyone told me that I need to pay attention to what's around me and that there "must be a nasty bone in my body" and then another girl said yeah there had to be something that pisses me off. I know they were kidding and all, but I dont know what Im supposed to do. I just dont feel confident at all and shy away from the people and the ball. Any advice?
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