Shyness Support Group
Shyness is a feeling of insecurity that certain people experience while being among others, talking with others, asking favors of others, etc. The initial cause of shyness can vary. Scientists have located some genetic data that supports the hypothesis that shyness is at least partially genetic.
Ok well.. I have this problem where i hang out with lots of people and i don't talk at all and i just sit in the background of the crowd just listening, Not engaging in whatever is going on. I have a bad habbit of doing so too and i can't help it. And the main problem i have is... kinda embarracing.. When i hang out with chicks or girls i cant strike a conversation. I pretty mutch just sit there like an idiot not saying anything like i'm trying to bore them to death. It's like i can't relate to them on any level because I, Myself, Am only interested in certain things and it's hard to relate. Then i get put into this really low self-esteemed mood that i'm not good enough and why would she want anything to do with me? I play videogames, play guitar, and have no determination for education. Most girls like it when a guy has really high self-esteem and is confident and shit, BUT THATS NOT ME! And it never works out with girls! I like.. practically choke! I freeze and can't think of anything to say at all most of the time and feel like leaving to go do something else. I just wish girls would make it easier for people like me and help us out.. If they're interested in people like us, who are really shy, they should be open and make us feel comfortable!!!!! ._.; I'm open for any advice, please help me =(.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
And I know what you mean about interests.But hey girls love guys who play guitar! Sit there with the guitar and watch what happens- girl's will start asking your questions,and if you play stuff you won't have to focus on talking. Your guitar will do it for you.
I guess the thing is, you want to really talk more than just BS, you want to let someone know what you're really about. That part comes later. It's like levels in a game. You gotta go through the first BS level before you can get to the good stuff.Good luck!