I was invited to a baby shower and almost didn't go because I am so shy and get very uncomfortable at crowds. I knew a few ladies there, but they are the ladies I work with and they don't include me anyways, so the whole time I just sat there trying to fit in... I want to cut loose and have fun.. it just doesn't come naturally to me like everyone else. I make myself talk up, but still seem invisible when I do, or i'm totally nervous, wringing my hands the whole time, or feel like they are thinking how stupid what I am saying is. What do you do when you are invited to parties or social events?? Do you make yourself go? How is it for you?? Any advice on how to get through it?
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