Shyness Support Group
Shyness is a feeling of insecurity that certain people experience while being among others, talking with others, asking favors of others, etc. The initial cause of shyness can vary. Scientists have located some genetic data that supports the hypothesis that shyness is at least partially genetic.
I am a little shy and sometimes I am quiet. I just don't know what to say at times. I know I can talk about the weather, news etc but what else? I am tired of feeling this way. If I could change it by snapping my fingers or whatever I would. I don't want to be this way. Any one have any advice?
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Do you have any hobbies? You could then meet like minded people and have loads to talk about x
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I know how you feel. I'm not good at small talk either but like the previous post, you can talk about something you like or something that happened to you that day. Once you've done that, you can go from there.
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yeh, i think the best thing to do is just talk about past experiences that have somethin to do with what ur talking about...people always love to hear other peoples views on things
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I try that but it doesn't always help. I don't like being this way. Its just not easy for me to just be very chatty instead of shy at times.
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find something you enjoy, and find people with the same interest. then you have something in common to talk about (ex: i like anime so i talk to people in the manga section of bookstores)
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