Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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your fault.

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has anyone here ever been blamed for it? like...they blamed you for getting..........

like... they say it was your fault...like...it wasn't rape at all..like...it was......sex

anyone?
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Yh he said it was makin love err it makes me feel sick thinking about it!
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I was blamed constantly and threatened with exposure if i went to anyone with the truth.

projecting blame onto the victem is very common.
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no one has ever blamed me, but I know I fight with the feeling personally, like why didn't i leave or how did I put myself in that position?

I wonder if the perpetrator thinks that i actually wanted, that is what makes me sick
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yeah, my family (from my father's side) first accused me of making it up, and just covering up for my mother's infidelity (she never cheated in her life), then it went on to being my fault,, and he was just drunk.... they are now regretting their actions.
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Yer my mum said i must have wanted it because she said if a woman does not want sex she can use her vaginal muscles to stop a man entering her. My mother was full of s**t. And i have had my grandparents say its what children do. My brother was alot older than me and it was a hell of alot more than shom me yours and i'll show u mine. So yer people dont like to admitt that abuse goes on in their family in their home in their community so on so its easyier to put them blame on the abused and make out it was consensual.
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yes! my dear dad decided to remind me that it was I who used to come and ask him for "it"? ummmmm It started when I was in diapers........ so then IF I EVER went and requested to be abused and used by my father, where the he*l does he think I got it from?

It is disgusting that my germ of a "Daddy" got away with useing his little girl.
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