
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I was recently thinking about this.
Why do people go through so much pain in order to heal? I know its easier than not dealing with it in some ways, but I was just wondering why ya'll are trying to heal?
For me, its my daughter. My mother was abused and I doubt she'll ever attempt healing from it. And then both me and my sister were abused. So now we're trying to break the cycle for our daughter's sake.
ya'll?
Why do people go through so much pain in order to heal? I know its easier than not dealing with it in some ways, but I was just wondering why ya'll are trying to heal?
For me, its my daughter. My mother was abused and I doubt she'll ever attempt healing from it. And then both me and my sister were abused. So now we're trying to break the cycle for our daughter's sake.
ya'll?
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I went to an AA meeting with my parents a couple weeks back, and there was one woman talking aobut her first meeting and how she ended up curled up on the floor crying. and she said, "the reason we go through so much pain, why we cry and bring ourselves almost to the point of suicide is that will to just be sane."
I felt that really applied to me. There are many reasons why I want to heal.
I really want to break the cycle of silence and secrecy within my family. I dont want to just cover it up like the rest of them I want to acctually be a sane, functional human being.
Even when I made my healing breakthrough, I was at a personal development/self-help workshop that wasn't even focused on healing from sexual abuse.
But things totally shifted for me. One morning I was still hating my dad and didn't really believe that anything else was possible. And that afternoon it was like everything changed. It was a total surprise.
I have some residual issues that I'm dealing with now. Mostly things that come up with my relationship with my boyfriend around sexuality.
I'm not used to seeing myself as sexual person. So I want to heal from this part of things because I'd love to have a fun, happy, healthy relationship with my partner.
thought the abuse ended 15 years ago, i really haven't been ready to deal with ALL of it with a support system in tact until now. i've tried healing on my own, and i just punked out first time things got hard and ran. no more running, no more hiding. tis time to feel the healing!