
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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While in work today a couple of engineers were talking about some sexual abuse case. I did not particapate in the dicussions, i just listened.
The one thing they all ageed apon was they all believed that if you were abused you would become an abuser. We here all know that is not true nor is it my question.
After listening to these guys for a half hour it beacame abundantly clear they were very ill informed. in the future i will help educate them.
But again it got thinking about that whole issue.
of why some kids that are abusedd become abusers.
I have never really thought about it. I think it is from the conditioning and distorted truths they learned while being abused. I know what non abused people think about this. But i don't how we survivors as a whole think why this happens.
The one thing they all ageed apon was they all believed that if you were abused you would become an abuser. We here all know that is not true nor is it my question.
After listening to these guys for a half hour it beacame abundantly clear they were very ill informed. in the future i will help educate them.
But again it got thinking about that whole issue.
of why some kids that are abusedd become abusers.
I have never really thought about it. I think it is from the conditioning and distorted truths they learned while being abused. I know what non abused people think about this. But i don't how we survivors as a whole think why this happens.
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