
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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When you tell them about your sexual abuse story (which is hard enough in itself) and you didn't tell the police..
I was raped when I was 15 and I didn't tell the police. I told my best friend (at the time) who called me a liar and told me I couldn't be friends with her anymore and she became best friends with him... Anyway that's another story.
If I had told the police I wouldn't have had my families or friends support. I was scared and hurt and I didn't know what to do. I went along pretending it didn't happen for so long (and washed away the evidence as I've been told).
It's so easy for people to judge and say you should go to the police and put him away etc etc but it's not that easy. I'm not condoning rape or sexual abuse at all in anyway..
I'm sick of people yelling and getting angry with me when I did what was best for me at the time. Selfish? I don't care.
I was raped when I was 15 and I didn't tell the police. I told my best friend (at the time) who called me a liar and told me I couldn't be friends with her anymore and she became best friends with him... Anyway that's another story.
If I had told the police I wouldn't have had my families or friends support. I was scared and hurt and I didn't know what to do. I went along pretending it didn't happen for so long (and washed away the evidence as I've been told).
It's so easy for people to judge and say you should go to the police and put him away etc etc but it's not that easy. I'm not condoning rape or sexual abuse at all in anyway..
I'm sick of people yelling and getting angry with me when I did what was best for me at the time. Selfish? I don't care.
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You're not selfish. Stay strong:)
You needed and still need to take care of you!!!
Survive anyway you can!!!
Honey your young yet, and you have many years ahead of you.YOU need to worry about you,and whats good for YOU! Thats what I think..I hope I helped you.
Im here ALWAYS if you need an ear,or a friend.
God Bless you!
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My counselor (who is the biggest jerk ever!) said that if I filed a report I'd have a 5% that it would go to court and less than 1% chance he would be found guilty. How could I put myself through that on my own?