Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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what would you do?

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my son was sexually molested by a 10 year old boy that belonged to his fathers girlfriend. I feel like this is a big deal but childrens services doesn't seem to agree with my opinion. they say that advising the other family to get therapy is the best option, and i think soon they are going to make my son go back there. I don't know what to do..any advice?
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I feel so sad just thinking about that! Just talk to the other family confront them you may have already done that talk to your son also may I ask how old he is because that may be a variable in this!
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do you have sole custody of your son? if not maybe the courts would feel differently if they knew this. I am not ready to even think about my story...but i can say that. . . sometimes it was a big deal to me, sometimes it was just kids stuff.

but i have heard that there is a normal amount of sexual curiousity between kids. what that norm is i don't know, and i also don't know what happend to your son. =/ i hope this was helpful
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Have you asked the police what they thought?

Children's Service doesn't seem to be doing much of a service for children.

Sheesh....
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I know several people who work for Children's Services and they would look at this situation with the upmost care. I have a couple questions: 1) Did you "hotline" it? 2) What would you think about talking to a Supervisor within Children's Services? 3) I love jndoe's idea about getting sole custody.

I'm so sorry about your situation. I can't imagine how angry it makes you. The 10-year-old "perp" needs some major intervention as well so he doesn't continue this.
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