I guess i just want answers. Definately an apology for the pain and maybe for him to understand what he has put me through. I dont think im asking for much, i think he owes me that after what he did.

amen to that

There are no answers...even if there are, they won't help. Acknowledgement and an apology and some compensation worked for me. Seeing the look in his eye knowing he lost what could have been a good relationship...that sadness...that's also good enough for me. It feels justified that he is sad and feels a loss. When I call and say guess what, today I was diagnosed with BP II and I hear that silence on the other end, I know he's thinking he probaly "caused" that also...that brings a little tinge of joy. Can't help but feel good every time he feels bad and that's probably pretty normal.

Nothing, I just want him to stay away from me forever.

I want him to admit what he's done. I want him to suffer the way that I've suffered for so long and continue to. I want him to pay for what he did because he is still free to live his dirty filthy life. I want to see him in pain and misery and close to death. I want him to stop doing the same thing to other little girls out there like I know he is. I just want peace and serenity...

my abuser is dead, so i dont know what if anything i want from him...i want to find peace in my heart but i never got to confront him about it...i want an apology from the people that knew what was going on and did nothing. more than anything from him.

I want them to stop.

I can't do anything he is dead.I just want to remember what happened...

I want to be left alone. He's been trying to contact me... 15 years later LEAVE ME BE

nothing. i don't expect anything from him anymore.

i wouldn't mind if he admitted what he did, if only to put to rest any lingering doubts I have that it really happened. Since he went to jail for attacks on others, I am not likely to have that. I have dark moments, when I wish I could torture him to give him a taste of the pain he put me through, but mostly I want to be able to heal, and put it behind me forever.

Nothing.

I don't expect anything from any of them except to never contact me. I don't want an apology because I know that even if they do apologies it will never mean anything to me. I want them to never do the things they did to me to anyone else. I want them to better themselves and learn from what happened to me and I want them to never come near myself or my family.

Grandfather is dead, Mom's bf's long gone, and my brother is in prison for raping a 12yr. old girl. He has asked me for forgiveness before. The problem is that he still won't admit he is a predator. He has been in prison for 15yrs. and has yet to seek counseling or anything. So, I think that I want him to admit not just to me but to my sister and her friends that he raped that he is a sexual predator.

My abuser was my mother. I had no safe place to be in my home and I had no one I could tell. She has always refused to acknowledge any of her abuse and continues to say it is in my mind - it is NOT in my mind. I want her to acknowledge what she did and apologize for it. That would help me get grounded - but she will not do that. I only hope she dies soon so that I don't have to think about her at all. I have not talked to her in 24 years and I do not intend to before she dies.

My abuser is where he belongs......in prison where I put him. There is nothing in my opinion that an abuser can give to a victim that will make up for what they did let alone remove what they did.