Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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Want to confront them

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I am in the middle of getting a divorce and have to go home for the weekend to get away and get some $$$. But now I'm thinking I might tell them to shove their money and tell them that I am getting a divorce because I've been driving the obth of us crazy with my BP and they are partially to blame for why I have BP! They act like nothing happened the incest the beatings they even bring up some crap that happened to my brother sometimes it's like hey, it happened to me too at least he wasn't raped! I want to tell them this I want to get it off my chest just like I'm letting go of this failed relationship. What do you think have you done this before?
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you have a lot on your plate and you seem overwhelmed. I say do what you have to do for yourself but I think taking a slower road in your dicisions might be better for you. I wouldn't want to see you with no support or stable place to live. You can always confront them when you are back on your feet. But you have to do what is right for you. I sometimes shoot myself in the foot by reacting to quickly.

take care of yourself
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I took the money for a while....figured I deserved it. Take it then say f' you. Seriously, don't you think it's the LEAST you are owed?
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Your divorce is a major life change that you are going through at the moment which is no doubt causing a bit of distress for you.

If you are really wanting to confront your family then that's a decision that only you can make. I would suggest that you sit back and think very carefully about whether this is the right time to unleash this fury upon them and also of the possible outcomes/responses that you might get and how you intend to handle them.

It's one thing to go and offload onto someone but many ppl fail to plan for the consequences/responses that they may get from doing so.
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My thoughts are with you. I am also BP II, so I understand where you are coming from. I was not ever heard either, it is like they swept it under the rug and then stomped on it. Which did not help me at all. I am glad that you took the money, it was owed to you. I understand your feelings here. No Sexual Abuse is the same. The rippling affects are fierce. Take a couple deep breaths and take a slow path. Look what is around you and take care. You can do this, I know you can. Are you on meds for your BP?
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