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Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I keep pushin the people who really care about me away. I get so nervous sometimes and when I get that way I get mad, I get mad at everyone. I yelled at my fiance just alittle while ago. He asked me to helped him with the garbage then he changed his mind and for a minute I felt like he was sayin never mind cause I was useless. But when I started yellin I saw the look on his face and realized that he didn't mean anything wrong by changing his mind he just didn't want me to get dirty. I need help, I can't help but think everyone thinks I'm useless and that I shouldn't be here. And I'm know I'm pushing him away with my outburst at him. But no matter how much I try to stop or refrain from yelling I can't. What can I do?

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And therein lies the problem. Our whole world is shaded by the way we see ourselves. I for example have issues with feeling or thinking that Im being ignored. I have picked many fights with my bf over silly stuff because I was sure he had something better. You know what I mean? I do understand.The only thing Ive been able to do is really truly consider what Im about to say to someone. Ive realized that Ive made alot of assumptions about what people think of me. Now I ask them outright what they think and I keep that in mind when I feel offended. I hopr this helped a little bit.

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What you have described could be indicative of BPD (Borderline personality disorder). have you ever been dx with it?
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