
Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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I rarely cry, and it is even more rare that I cry over my past, but I half broke down tonight, which I think was triggered by something I watched on tv. It was good to feel something, but I don't know to attribute my writing to. So this is what came out, read it if you want, provide feedback on what I can do to help my healing, etc.
"He hurt me and he wouldn't stop. None of this will ever end for me. It's just one hand over another forcing its way upon me. Now I've been taught for myself just how to ruin my Self, just how to turn away when I need love most. And yet I found your embrace each time - completely betrayed. Your love was a facade, and now that you offer the real thing I don't know how to respond. You always taught me not to respond. Tears result in nothing more than pain - that was your promise. I no longer know if any love is real. No one is here to stay. I might as well leave me too. Why won't you hold me, let me cry in your arms, feel safe in knowing you'll hold me again tomorrow without question? I need to know someone that loves me won't leave me. I need to hear that my unspoken condemnation for you doesn't condemn me just the same. Nothing is here to stay and because of that I don't think any of this is worth my time. Was it ever for anything at all?'
"He hurt me and he wouldn't stop. None of this will ever end for me. It's just one hand over another forcing its way upon me. Now I've been taught for myself just how to ruin my Self, just how to turn away when I need love most. And yet I found your embrace each time - completely betrayed. Your love was a facade, and now that you offer the real thing I don't know how to respond. You always taught me not to respond. Tears result in nothing more than pain - that was your promise. I no longer know if any love is real. No one is here to stay. I might as well leave me too. Why won't you hold me, let me cry in your arms, feel safe in knowing you'll hold me again tomorrow without question? I need to know someone that loves me won't leave me. I need to hear that my unspoken condemnation for you doesn't condemn me just the same. Nothing is here to stay and because of that I don't think any of this is worth my time. Was it ever for anything at all?'

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that was called a trigger its telling you your mind has to show feelings to be healthy.

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Writing down your feelings and crying to allow yourself to mourn your loss is a great step in healing. You did the right thing and didn't even know it.
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