Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
I find it such a mixed up of emotions here. I am always happy to see another come here to start take back what was stolen from them. Angered that there is always more. Recently I have been extending my friendship to different people. To see what I can do to help. After messaging a new arrival. Two more just showed up.
I have an ideal for all of us. Lets attack both fronts. Fight the injustice of sexual abuse and walk with people till they are whole again, as many here are already doing.
Lets attack the tide as well. There is no sure fire plan to keep all sexual deviant misfits on shut down. What so many of them have in common is they are cowards. They test their targets and go for the soft ones. Teach your children or other young love ones to never except another making them feel uncomfortable. Teach them no one has the right to do such a thing. Tell they to sharply say no, stop, I do not like this, I will tell if you do not stop. Then empower them. Let them know they should run for help should this person not listen. If that help fails them then go to you ASAP. For you will surly no fail them. Tell them do not believe their lies they will try to scare you or threaten even hurting me. That is a lie. Tell them you know just what to do to put them down.
I tell this two my little girls all the time. While back I came home from a bad day at work and was short. I picked up my girls and my mood was no better. Well after a few hours of her daddy acting grumpy. She told me she did not like the way I was acting and that it made her feel uncomfortable. I forgot why I was upset cause at that moment I was too proud of her. If she can tell me to stop to my actions I know she has the courage and esteem to put the rest in their place as well. So remember this add to it. But lets make our children harder targets.
As for all new comers. I welcome you here. I extend my friendship. If you are alone in your hell and wish someone to walk with you on your journey to be whole again I would be honored to do this. If me being a guy is unacceptable I so understand this. I know there are several intelligent women who soon will offer the same very thing.
I have an ideal for all of us. Lets attack both fronts. Fight the injustice of sexual abuse and walk with people till they are whole again, as many here are already doing.
Lets attack the tide as well. There is no sure fire plan to keep all sexual deviant misfits on shut down. What so many of them have in common is they are cowards. They test their targets and go for the soft ones. Teach your children or other young love ones to never except another making them feel uncomfortable. Teach them no one has the right to do such a thing. Tell they to sharply say no, stop, I do not like this, I will tell if you do not stop. Then empower them. Let them know they should run for help should this person not listen. If that help fails them then go to you ASAP. For you will surly no fail them. Tell them do not believe their lies they will try to scare you or threaten even hurting me. That is a lie. Tell them you know just what to do to put them down.
I tell this two my little girls all the time. While back I came home from a bad day at work and was short. I picked up my girls and my mood was no better. Well after a few hours of her daddy acting grumpy. She told me she did not like the way I was acting and that it made her feel uncomfortable. I forgot why I was upset cause at that moment I was too proud of her. If she can tell me to stop to my actions I know she has the courage and esteem to put the rest in their place as well. So remember this add to it. But lets make our children harder targets.
As for all new comers. I welcome you here. I extend my friendship. If you are alone in your hell and wish someone to walk with you on your journey to be whole again I would be honored to do this. If me being a guy is unacceptable I so understand this. I know there are several intelligent women who soon will offer the same very thing.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I also read over your profile and I am sorry for your pain. It was not fair and you did nothing to deserve it.
I rather feel comfortable in the presents of a strong "Man"...
I to have children and our family line is no secrets and it always has been. I tell them often that any secret is to be shared in our family unit for there is nothing that together we cannot overcome.
Take care
Deb
it was recently put to the test in my own home where the eight year old was being touched inappropriatly. the eight year old learn his lessons well and came to his mother the first chance he got. it was really niped int he but.
lemming said it best. this is what this group is all about.
great post.