Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
when i feel down or depressed (or when i'm thinking of my past experiences)...i have the tendency to splurge all my money, whether it's money i have (savings/checkings) or money i don't (credit)...
it's just that, whenever i think of what happened...it gets me so down that i spend money to make me happy. the item i buy doesn't make me happy...it's buying the stuff that makes me happy.
does anyone else have this same "problem"? i feel like i've dug myself a hole. the stupidest thing i can really recall is going out and spending $100 on eight fish that aren't even spectacular. three of them died within the first week...
but, yeah. does anyone else spend money like crazy when they don't feel "up"?
it's just that, whenever i think of what happened...it gets me so down that i spend money to make me happy. the item i buy doesn't make me happy...it's buying the stuff that makes me happy.
does anyone else have this same "problem"? i feel like i've dug myself a hole. the stupidest thing i can really recall is going out and spending $100 on eight fish that aren't even spectacular. three of them died within the first week...
but, yeah. does anyone else spend money like crazy when they don't feel "up"?
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I buy things for my daughter and spend money not budgeted. I don't usually go crazy and spend a lot but it does make me feel better to buy something.
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