Sexual Abuse Support Group

Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...

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Someone Teach Me To Be A Good Mother..Quick..

deleted_user
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I am almost 16 at the time and I just gave birth to my first born child 5months ago on Nov. 15. Her name is Issabella Grace and she is my world! I would give anything for her, including my life. She is what keeps me alive. I was, however, raped and became pregnant. Im scared when shes older she will feel she was a mistake. I'm going to school and holding a job and I am a single mom and its so hard. I feel like I dont spend the time with her I should. I feel like such a bad mom. I am currently pregnant again with my second child from the same person. This is a family member and it has been going on for quiet a few years. I want to put the details behind me. Right now, I just need some 'mommy advice.' I need some help! I want to give my babys everything I can. I'm so scared they'll grow up to hate me.. I dont want them to think they were a mistake. I wouldnt give eathier of them for anything in the world! I sometimes wish it had been by a different person and later on in my life but then I remember that if that was the case they wouldnt be the same little people.
Someone Teach Me To Be A Good Mother To My Babys
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think it's amazing that you're taking care of your babies and worrying about all this with everything else you've had to deal with...are you safe from this person now?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think every parent worries about not doing enough for their childern and that they will grow up to hate them. In my life I have found that if the parent loves the child the child will alway love back. Childern don't get to choose their parents but they love the one that love them. If you love them they will in turn love themselves and they will not feel like a mistake. Please take care of your,
jeanne36roses
jeanne36roses
DO YOU KNOW THAT SEXUAL ABUSE IS AGAINST THE LAW? YOU NEED TO REPORT THIS CRIME TO A POLICE OFFICER. I CONSIDER YOU TO BE A VERY BRAVE PERSON. I AM GLAD THAT YOU ARE TAKING CARE OF YOUR CHILD AND THE ONE ON THE WAY. YOU WILL BE A GOOD MOM. YOU KNOW WHEN TO ASK FOR HELP.
deleted_user
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Keyana, The key to being a good mom is to always be there for your children(emotionally), I know you can't physically be there because you have to work etc. but be with them as much as you can. Also, to protect them from bad. There is not a book to follow to how to be a great parent you do what you can with what you have. Teach them to laugh, hold them when they cry, make them feel safe and give them unconditional love.

Now, having said that! The first thing you need to do it to protect them. Who ever did this and did it to you twice should be reported. If this individual is doing this to you he obviously may go on to do it to Isabella, and possibly the child on the way. He needs to be reported now. He knows no boundaries and is a predator. Please protect those children and report him. What he did was a crime. You will be able to keep your children but you will also have help because of the situation.

With love!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Does anyone in your family wonder who the father of your child is?? You really need to tell someone about this. If not for yourself then for your child. I to got pregnant by my rapist however, I wasn't as fortunate as you. Because my rapist also physically abused me I lost my beautiful little boy Enoch before he could even be born. I am here for you if you ever need anything.
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