Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Sometimes the internet is an evil thing....
I found the man who molested me on facebook.
My memories are very fuzzy regarding the abuse, but I always thought our ages were 7 or 8(myself) and somewhere between 14 and 16(him).
But according to his facebook page, he's only about four years older than me...this now is making me question everything, and now I can't help but feel like everything is being invalidated, because that means that we were both children, and now I feel like I've overreacted and that I'm completely crazy. This has made me question everything because this new development just doesn't make any sense. It doesn't make any sense at all. And I have no idea what to do or what to think.
I found the man who molested me on facebook.
My memories are very fuzzy regarding the abuse, but I always thought our ages were 7 or 8(myself) and somewhere between 14 and 16(him).
But according to his facebook page, he's only about four years older than me...this now is making me question everything, and now I can't help but feel like everything is being invalidated, because that means that we were both children, and now I feel like I've overreacted and that I'm completely crazy. This has made me question everything because this new development just doesn't make any sense. It doesn't make any sense at all. And I have no idea what to do or what to think.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
i can't remember what REALLY happened to me in my first experience. my mind has made up a story to keep me content, but every now and then i find something out...
and i know how you feel...because when i figure something out, i question it.
it makes me question the WHOLE thing, from beginning to end...
and around and around i go...where i stop, i really never know...it's a bad feeling for me...the feeling of insecurity...of not even knowing what happened...
...i'm right here with you. message me WHENEVER you want or need to...
stay strong! =)
I suggest you let your emotions and body tell you what needs to be done as far as healing. your confusion does not mean it didn't happen or was ok because he was only 4 years older than you.
he was wrong -it affected your life and well being and you shouldn't minimize or maximize what happen to you. you should deal with the feeling and affects and not worry about him. this is about you.
take care.